Parental Interlude

Well, the work week’s over, but not the travel.  After work this afternoon I hopped a plane from Milwaukee to Detroit, and drove down to Toledo (Perrysburg) to visit with my mom.  She’s been battling shingles since November, and still has burning and skin irritation.  It’s really frustrating her, but I tell her that I still have itching on my scalp and some strange sensations left over from my own bout with anthropomorphized building products that started last June.  Oddly, she doesn’t find this comforting.

She’s had much more intense pain than I did - mine started in my eye (!) and traveled over my forehead and scalp, hers branches out from her torso.  While treating her for her pain, her doctor began to suspect other causes, and ordered some imaging that disclosed a crack in one of her vertebrae and some disc damage.  This coming week, she’s having some sort of injection that is supposed to provide some cushioning.

While she was speculating on several incidents that could have caused the fracture, I told her that I and my brothers were squabbling over which of us had stepped on a crack, and whether it was on purpose.  Luckily, she found that amusing.

It’s actually a pretty busy weekend for my mom.  Her sister is flying in from Myrtle Beach tomorrow and will stay with her for a couple of weeks to be sure that the injection procedure is stabilized.  She also has subscription tickets with some friends to a play tomorrow and an opera on Sunday.  When she heard that I was planning to stop by (I had purchased my plane reservations without consulting her), she actually tried to dissuade me from coming because she was afraid she’d have too little time to spend with me.  I checked to see what it would cost to change the reservation to just fly back to Seattle tonight, and the price was virtually the same, so I told her I’d go to the play with them if I could get a ticket.

So that’s how I’ll end up going to see Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat tomorrow afternoon.  I don’t have much history with musicals since seeing movies of My Fair Lady and Sound of Music in high school, and this production, apparently, is entirely sung, with no spoken dialogue.  I’ll let you know how I like it.

4 Comments

  1. I hope your mom’s case of shingles is quickly resolved, with the injection for the vertebrae problem initiating an about-face for the shingles. And, as for her cracked vertebrae: let that be a lesson to you and your brothers–don’t be cavalier about superstitions. I’ve seen the damage that can be done when someone in Texas fails to eat black-eyed peas on New Year’s Day! Enjoy JATATD…have never seen it and am interested to know what you think.

  2. Oof. I think I would have paid extra to miss that play.

    But then, I’d give anything if I could to go to a play with my mom now, even if I had to sit through Cats or Phantom of the Opera.

  3. Brian:

    I think it was Larry. You know, he always gets the blame in the family!

  4. I’m going to be extra careful from now on about stepping on cracks. I hope your mom is feeling better, and that your company helped cheer her up.