Headin’ South

Lots of water under the bridge since my last post.

Next week, for the 15th year, we’re headed to Ashland, Oregon for a week of vacation. As before, the week will include attending plays at the Oregon Shakespeare Festival, hiking in the Siskiyou Mountains on and around the Pacific Crest Trail and general R&R.

For the last 3 years, my mom has been accompanying us, and that was the plan this year as well. However, last week she came down with some form of pneumonia and ended up in a hospital over the weekend. She’d been feeling a little punk earlier in the week, but she says she was trying to nurse herself along and be well enough to make her flight to Seattle, which would have left today (Wednesday).

She was playing bridge on Thursday morning and getting worse, though, and her friends finally ended the game and insisted on taking her to a doctor. She said, “It must have been because they were concerned about me - my cards were really crummy all morning.” Tests came back Friday, and the doc urged her to go to the emergency room.

Meanwhile, my brother, who calls her just about every day, hadn’t been able to reach her on Friday, and on Saturday called me to see if I’d spoken to her.  She hadn’t returned my call from Thursday, so we stewed a bit about what to do.  We couldn’t reach either of her neighbors.  Finally, my brother called the police to go and look.  A neighbor who had a key happened to meet them there, and they looked through the house with my brother on the phone just sure they were on a body hunt.  Later, when we found out the details, my mom was mortified that the police were in the house “when it was such a mess, with dirty dishes in the sink and everything.”

I spoke with her several times while she was in the joint, and she was getting progressively perturbed at the confinement and not being able to sleep well. By Monday, she’d had it and insisted on being released. A friend picked her up, and she’s glad to be home and feeling better, despite some discomfort working her way through a couple of drug series. I called her this afternoon, and she said, “Why aren’t you picking me up at the airport right now?”

I waited until yesterday to cancel her plane reservations, thinking that if she got stronger in a hurry, I didn’t want to foreclose the opportunity. I’ll miss her enthusiasm - she’s always thrilled at the performances and the atmosphere of the theaters and the town.

So, we now have a capacious house for the week, and we’ll need to sell or exchange her play tickets. Shouldn’t be too hard - I bought our tickets last November in the member’s presale, and they just rock, they’re all in the first 3 rows.

Here are the plays we’ll see:

  • Our Town (Thornton Wilder) - will be the first 20th-century play they’ve stage in the outdoor Elizabethan theater.
  • The Further Adventures of Hedda Gabler (Jeff Whitty) - begins where Ibsen’s play ends, resurrecting Hedda so she can see about getting a re-write.
  • Othello
  • A Midsummer Night’s Dream - “What happens in the forest stays in the forest”
  • Fences (August Wilson) - They’ve been doing Wilson plays from the Pittsburgh Cycle for the last 3 - 4 years, although not chronologically.
  • Coriolanus
  • The Clay Cart - a 2,000-year-old (east) Indian play.

We’ll fly into Medford Monday and return the 30th.

Right now, I’m hurtling through the work week trying to ensure that nothing seeps over into next week, so I can relax and use my laptop for repairing this dysfunctional project.

Update: - check out the blog threads from our previous trips in the sidebar.

6 Comments

  1. Glad your mom is feeling better. “Our Town” is my favorite, favorite, favorite play in the whole world. Seriously, I bet a week doesn’t go by when I don’t think of it. It has changed the way I view the world, and my time with my daughter … especially the simple ones.

    Have a great time!

  2. I hope your mom continues on the path to being entirely mended very soon. Were I in her shoes, I’d be annoyed that you didn’t sweep in, push the pneumonia aside, and take her off to Ashland! Seriously, she’s far better off taking care of herself (and having others take care of her) back home than wandering around Oregon! Enjoy your time in Ashland and give your mom my most sincere good wishes!

  3. oh my! Our parents are now getting so old and fragile! How frantic you must’ve been. Good thing to cancel her plane ticket - no sense in making anything worse.

    Sounds like a lovely trip ahead, filled with lots of enjoyment. Great plays to see!

  4. Glad you mom is out of the “joint” and on the way to feeling better. Our parents are definitely getting older, and they do seem more susceptible to illnesses. My mom recovered from her bout of pneumonia, but has had inflammation of her lungs since winter. Oy.

    Your trip to Ashland sounds delightful as always. Great plays too. Hope you and the missus have a grand time.

  5. Phil:

    Thank you guys for your good wishes for my mom, and for our sojourn in Ashland. I’m so looking forward to it. It’s been so long since I’ve been able to jawbone down the pulse of life.

    John, I was torn between keeping the option to make the journey open, as an incentive, and shutting the option down so as not to entice her into further danger to her health. She pretty much decided for herself.

    Tara and Robin - my mom had COPD, whether it’s from moderate smoking herself or being exposed for a lifetime to my dad’s 3+-pack a day habit, so she’s vulnerable to any aberration in the bronchial cosmos.

    Thanks again for the good wishes, everyone.

  6. KEN:

    I just read Hedda Gabler, among other Ibsen, during our trip to Norway.

    Hope your mom’s recovery continues.